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Tuesday, April 14, 2009
Are All Spouses Mean During The Divorce
Please post your story. We would all love to hear about how your spouse has changed during your divorce. What you have to say can be really helpful to others in the futher. Let's hear the good, the bad and the ugly!!
It went smooth for me. As a matter of fact, we shared a lawyer because there was no dispute in what either of us wanted. Bend, be flexible and don't ask for everything. If you can both do that, then this will go smoothly for you.
The thing to remember is that there is a reason you are getting divorced; if everything was normal you probably would stay together. Some spouses are mean during a divorce, but most likely they were mean before. The stress of divorcing brings out the worst in most people. Stay calm and try to get through it, especially if there are children involved. Good luck.
My spouse is being real nasty. I wish she would calm down and get this disaster over with!!
ReplyDeleteIt went smooth for me. As a matter of fact, we shared a lawyer because there was no dispute in what either of us wanted. Bend, be flexible and don't ask for everything. If you can both do that, then this will go smoothly for you.
ReplyDeleteThe thing to remember is that there is a reason you are getting divorced;
ReplyDeleteif everything was normal you probably would stay together. Some spouses are mean during a divorce, but most likely they were mean before. The stress of divorcing brings out the worst in most people. Stay calm and try to get through it, especially if there are children involved. Good luck.