Never Believe What You Hear

Anyone that tells you about divorce is probably telling you their own personal experiences and coveneying their experience as the way ALL divorces do. In listening to everyone I have spoken to, the bottom line is each divorce is a little different. Some can get away with a mediator or even share a lawyer because they know their divorce is going to go peacefully. Some prepare themselves for World War III. The bottom line is that you know your spouse best and, although you must protect yourself because people change and you don't know how they are going to react, you have to deal with your spouse the way you want. Remember, your attorney works for you so tell them what you want. But you have to be prepared to hear that what you want might not be feasible.